THE CODE RED TOOLBOX
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When normal parenting isn't working...you need more options and tools.
If your child or teenager is dealing with serious defiance, explosive behavior, vaping, drugs, lying, running away, screen addiction, aggression, school problems—or simply refuses to listen anymore—this was created for you.
You've probably tried talking.
You've probably tried consequences.
You've probably tried taking the phone.
You've probably yelled, begged, threatened, explained, cried, backed off, tried again...
And you're exhausted.
The Code Red Toolbox gives you new ideas for when the normal parenting tools aren't enough.
GET INSTANT ACCESS TODAY — $197
YOU ARE NOT OUT OF OPTIONS.
For more than two decades, I've worked with parents through some incredibly difficult family situations.
And I've learned something:
When a family reaches Code Red, parents often become convinced they have nothing left to try.
That's rarely true.
You may need to stop enabling.
You may need stronger boundaries.
You may need a completely different consequence.
You may need an intervention.
You may need to change the currency.
You may need outside help.
Or you may need someone to show you options you simply haven't considered yet.
That's why I created The Code Red Toolbox.
HERE'S WHAT YOU GET
🔥 THE 117-PAGE CODE RED TOOLBOX
My new parent guide built specifically for families dealing with serious defiance and destructive behavior.
Inside, I'll walk you through 7 increasingly powerful ideas for breaking patterns of defiance, including:
Consequences that connect and work
Daily Checklists & Job Descriptions
How and When To Lead an Intervention
Tools for Screens, Drug Use, Vaping, Violence, School Refusals, etc...
How and When To Bring In Outside Support
Emergency & Safety Intervention For Violent Outbursts, Threats, or Running Away
Some ideas are simple.
Some are intense.
You decide what fits your family.
🎥 35 CODE RED VIDEO TRAININGS
Get access to more than:
9 HOURS OF VIDEO COACHING WITH SEAN
These aren't generic parenting videos. Or social media videos.
I've hand-picked trainings specifically for parents dealing with the hard stuff.
You'll learn about:
Defiance and enabling.
Parent unity.
House Rules.
Emotional and natural consequences.
Entitlement.
What to do when your child refuses their consequence.
Interventions and tough love.
Screen addiction.
Drugs, alcohol and vaping.
Lying and secret lives.
Running away.
Aggression and violence.
When—and when not—to involve police or emergency help.
Accountability.
Making amends.
Repair and reconnection.
This is the stuff I teach parents when things get real.
YOUR CODE RED VIDEO COURSE
Don't worry—you don't have to figure out where to begin.
I've organized your 35 video trainings and 9+ hours of coaching into a simple step-by-step path:
CHAPTER 1 — START HERE
Prepare yourself and your family for change and learn how to use your Code Red Toolbox.
CHAPTER 2 — UNDERSTANDING DEFIANCE & ENABLING
Understand what's driving the behavior—and how loving parents can accidentally help unhealthy patterns continue.
CHAPTER 3 — STOP ENABLING & TAKE BACK LEADERSHIP
House Rules, parent leadership, consequences, over-parenting, under-parenting and creating a healthier family structure.
CHAPTER 4 — CONSEQUENCES & ACCOUNTABILITY
Learn how I think about Emotional Consequences, Natural Consequences, entitlement, bedroom currency and accountability.
CHAPTER 5 — INTERVENTION & TOUGH LOVE
What happens when talking isn't working? Learn about interventions, stronger boundaries, refusing consequences, changing friend groups and what I call “playing hard ball.”
CHAPTER 6 — SCREENS
Go deeper into screen addiction, Screen Fasts, screen trust and rebuilding a healthier relationship with technology.
CHAPTER 7 — DRUGS, ALCOHOL, VAPING & EXTREME BEHAVIOR
A deeper dive into substance use, lying, secret lives, running away, aggression, violence, consequences and accountability.
CHAPTER 8 — WHEN IT BECOMES A SAFETY ISSUE
How to think about situations involving violence, suicidal threats, police, family members, friends and outside help.
CHAPTER 9 — REPAIR & RECONNECTION
Because the goal isn't punishment. Learn how to help your child take accountability, make amends, repair relationships and move forward.
YOU DON'T HAVE TO WATCH EVERYTHING AT ONCE.
Start with what's happening in your family right now.
Then come back whenever you need another idea, another tool or another perspective.
That's why I call it a Toolbox.
I think that last line is particularly good for the checkout page. The amount of content becomes a benefit rather than an objection.
đź“• THE 94-PAGE SCREEN ADDICTION PLAYBOOK
If screens have taken over your child's life, you'll also get my complete Screen Addiction Playbook.
Learn how to think differently about phones, gaming, social media, screen limits, trust, Screen Fasts and rebuilding a healthier relationship with technology.
Included with your Code Red Toolbox.
THIS IS FOR THE PARENT THINKING...
"My kid doesn't care about consequences."
"We've taken everything away."
"Nothing works anymore."
"I'm scared of how my child will react."
"My spouse and I aren't on the same page."
"My teenager is vaping or using drugs."
"My child lies constantly."
"They're becoming aggressive."
"They're running away."
"I feel like I've completely lost control of my home."
Or maybe simply:
"SEAN...I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMORE."
That's exactly why I made this.
I want you to have options.
IMPORTANT: THIS ISN'T ABOUT BECOMING A HARSHER PARENT.
This isn't a course about crushing your kid.
It's not about revenge.
It's not about controlling another human being.
And it's definitely not about becoming meaner.
My philosophy has always been:
HEART + HEAD.
Heart: connection, empathy, listening, trust and love.
Head: boundaries, structure, accountability, responsibility and leadership.
Because underneath so much defiance is something we cannot forget:
A DEFIANT CHILD IS OFTEN A DISCONNECTED CHILD.
Our goal isn't simply obedience.
Our goal is to interrupt destructive patterns while creating a path back toward responsibility, repair and connection.
YOU DON'T NEED ANOTHER PARENTING THEORY.
You need tools.
You need ideas.
You need options.
And sometimes...
you need someone to show you a completely different way of looking at the problem.
That's what you'll find inside The Code Red Toolbox.
GET INSTANT ACCESS
The Code Red Toolbox — $197
âś“ 117-Page Code Red Parent Guide
âś“ 35 Hand-Picked Video Trainings
âś“ 9+ Hours of Coaching & Teaching
âś“ 94-Page Screen Addiction Playbook
âś“ Defiance, Consequences & Accountability Training
✓ Intervention Letter and Guide
âś“ Drugs, Alcohol & Vaping Training
âś“ Running Away, Aggression & Safety Training
âś“ Repair & Reconnection Training
GET THE CODE RED TOOLBOX — $197
Instant access. Start today.
— Sean Donohue
The Family Coach
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Important: The Code Red Toolbox is an educational parenting resource and does not provide individualized medical, mental-health, legal or emergency advice. Some strategies discussed are intentionally intense and may not be appropriate for every child or family. Parents are responsible for determining what is safe, lawful and appropriate for their circumstances and should involve qualified professionals when appropriate.
