Every two years I do something different....very different.
I spend 7 days practicing mindfulness...
No non-essential talking.
This is my mindfulness retreat...
and it is an integral part of my Self-Care.
Now I should say that my mind did not STOP thinking.
(In fact, somedays I thought it was racing faster than ever!).
But over the course of one week I noticed more.
A lot more.
And I'd like to share some of the nuggets of wisdom I caught.
I rely on structures in my life...and this type of structured retreat is a favorite form of vacation for me.
I don't do this experience by myself. I retreat into silence and mindfulness with others.
Because of the strict lock-down rules here in Northern California, we met via Zoom from our various home and retreat locations this year.
We shared long periods of silence...
These were interspersed with teachings on some timely themes (the preciousness of birth and death, life's cycle of cause and effect, etc.) and small group discussions in the afternoons.
After practicing together on Zoom during the days, we’d return to our home life for the evenings.
A serious commitment to Self-Care can be so difficult.
Especially in our culture that defines people by their productivity.
I too have a hard time slowing down.
So it takes a little bit of structure for me to be able to relax into a regular Self-Care routine.
In my daily life this means a few touch points throughout the day:
-a first-thing-in-the-morning walk
-after lunch mindfulness time
-reading a book for 15 minutes
And for that week-long Zoom retreat I quietly slowed down...
...and my mind became more still...
....bubbled up in me:
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Log Cabin - Owen Wassell - @owen_was
Man Journaling - Prophsee -@prophsee
Thinking Man - Ben White - @benwhitephotography
Sunrise - Cynthia Magana - @cynthmag
Teens Journaling - Alexis Brown - @alexisrbrown